Tony916 Posted October 10, 2022 Report Share Posted October 10, 2022 I have been dealing with this issue for over 15 years now. I can't have a steady relationship, I can't go on dates much, it's also affected my life in doing things like travelling, socializing and more. How it starts: Whenever I am out of control of a situation that has minor stress that puts me out of my element such as knowing I have to sit in a car, airplane for long periods of time, going on a date which when I get anxiety it immediately triggers my stomach to hurt to where I feel like I have to keep using the bathroom, being in a tattoo chair or dentist office chair...basically any situation I put myself in where I have to explain myself and lose control of the situation it floods on. Literally as soon as I'm OUT of that element it literally floods away and leaves and my stomach no longer hurts anymore. I have noticed myself not normally using the restroom like others do and find myself scared to have any type or normal life now. I've seeked no treatment for this still. Does anyone relate to this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeffrey Roberts Posted October 10, 2022 Report Share Posted October 10, 2022 Hi Tony916, I can certainly relate to your situation. I have had similar triggers. Simply pushing through them often turns out for me to not be as bad as I had envisioned. I have used Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) to learn how to better cope in these situations. The FDA has recently approved a CBT app for IBS. There is also a new Hypnotherapy app that could also work to change your thoughts to help you cope in these situations. It's not easy to change; however, with support you can try and tame the anxiety so you can start living a more normal life. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esmee Posted January 22 Report Share Posted January 22 Hi Tony916, I relate to your description about feeling out of control and then anxious, and then ...IBS hits! Took me a while to figure out what was going on with the panic/anxiety I feel when I fly, sit in a concert, dentist chair [as you say, any situation where you can't just get up and walk out.] During CBT for the flying phobia, the word Claustrophia came up. It's a big part of the trapped feeling, for me. CBT actually helped me be able to get on a plane, but at least as important, it stopped the months of anticipatory anxiety that went on before a trip, which kept me in a moderate state of IBS until I got on the plane. By then I was weak with having dealt with the anxiety and IBS symptoms. I'm also going to look at the Hypnotherapy app that Jeffrey mentions. Breathing techniques and meditation - any kind - might help in the moment as well. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renee kerckhove Posted April 4 Report Share Posted April 4 On 10/10/2022 at 12:42 PM, Tony916 said: I have been dealing with this issue for over 15 years now. I can't have a steady relationship, I can't go on dates much, it's also affected my life in doing things like travelling, socializing and more. How it starts: Whenever I am out of control of a situation that has minor stress that puts me out of my element such as knowing I have to sit in a car, airplane for long periods of time, going on a date which when I get anxiety it immediately triggers my stomach to hurt to where I feel like I have to keep using the bathroom, being in a tattoo chair or dentist office chair...basically any situation I put myself in where I have to explain myself and lose control of the situation it floods on. Literally as soon as I'm OUT of that element it literally floods away and leaves and my stomach no longer hurts anymore. I have noticed myself not normally using the restroom like others do and find myself scared to have any type or normal life now. I've seeked no treatment for this still. Does anyone relate to this? Hi Tony916 i was scared at first. Didn’t know what to do. One big thing I’ve learned is to not scare myself. Yes IBS-c has been a mess once or twice over 22 years. The first mess happened with my new boyfriend and we’ve been married 31 years. I have a colonic right before flying somewhere. Open colonic is my favorite. Not all doctors agree with this technique. But it completely relaxes me for my plane trip. hope that helps. Hang in there. Yes digestive problems can be scarey but I find it helps me not to scare myself then I can relax if even just a few minutes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursula M Posted April 20 Report Share Posted April 20 Hi! Yes, I have found that any sudden shock to my emotional wellbeing (i.e. bad news, an unexpected argument with family/friends, feeling like I have no control over a situation) definitely impacts my IBS. I do try to pay attention to how my body is reacting "in the moment" in order to prevent a flare up and I'll do some meditation or deep breathing to relax my body. Sometimes it works, but sometimes it doesn't. I've started adding weekly acupuncture to my list of coping skills and recovery techniques. The most recent flare up (right now, actually) is less bad than usual, but its still noticeable. Nausea, cramps, fatigue, and overall sense of malaise. I try to remind myself that it's temporary and won't kill me, but its still debilitating and depressing. You're not alone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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